28 March, 2011
Cloth Diaper Advice - Mailbox Mondays 3/28/11 - Diaper Rash/Creams
If you have cloth diaper questions, every Monday I will answer reader submitted questions, and ask you to add your opinions.
Questions don't have to be cloth diaper related, just email maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject, or Fill out my contact form for readers, which you will always be able to find on my Contact Page.
Madeline says:
Hey Maria,
I have a friend with a newborn who has horrible diaper rash (even in sposies) and has to have medicated diaper cream and A and D ointment on her bottom (the doc wants only the A and D to come off with diaper changes, so the medicated stays on all the time). I suggested fleece liners, but wondered (1) if you have any other suggestions and (2) if you know of any diaper cream that is as thick as Desitin, but is CD safe.
Madeline
Hi Madeline. Even "cloth safe" creams have to be put on very, very thin in order to not damage the diapers. If she had to use a medicated cream, I'd recommend using a fleece liner for sure. You're really not going to find anything that thick or medicated that is cloth safe. I never had luck with Desitin, but I think Boudreax's Butt Paste is an awesome non-cloth safe rash cream. It always worked wonders on my daughter (who was disposable diapered.)
Does she know what the rash is? Thrush etc.? My son actually got terrible rashes from disposables, but it cleared up with cloth. If he gets a bit red, I put a thin layer of a cloth safe cream like Grandma El's, Earth Mama Angel Baby Bottom Balm, or Motherlove Diaper Rash and Thrush Salve, and it clears up.
Once her baby's rash has cleared up, she might want to consider using a very, very thin layer of cloth safe cream at every change as a barrier.
For now, I'd also recommend letting the baby have some naked time. Do tummy time on a few blankets or a waterproof pad, and leave the diaper off whenever possible. I know it can be a messy prospect, but air does seem to help rashes!
How about you lovely readers? Have you battled a diaper rash that required medicated cream?
21 March, 2011
Cloth Diaper Advice - Mailbox Mondays 3/21/11
Every Monday, I will answer reader submitted questions, and ask you to add your opinions.
Questions don't have to be cloth diaper related, just email maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject, or Fill out my contact form for readers, which you will always be able to find on my Contact Page.
I didn't receive any submissions this week, but as you all know, I will always answer questions via email. I thought I'd summarize two emails I received this week, since others may be having the same issues, and see what you all think!
M. has a 6 month old, 22 lb baby who has a pretty high rise. She was looking for one-size pockets with a high enough rise to cover his crack! She doesn't have too many commercial diapers, but did recently win a Best Bottom diaper in a giveaway.
The highest rise diapers I have are the Bumgenius 4.0, Flip, Fuzzibunz Perfect Size Medium and Thirsties Duo Diaper Size 2.
I grabbed a few of my diapers to compare and found that the Bumgenius 4.0 unsnapped is a smidge bigger than the Best Bottom unsnapped, by about an inch. The BG 4.0 and FB medium are about the same size when stretched, but the FB is actually a smidge bigger when folded. The Thirsties size 2 is very similar to the Bumgenius.
How about you guys? Have you found a diaper with a nice, high rise?
A. received a few used diaper covers, but they smelled like smoke. She did a soak and triple rinsed, but they still smelled smoky. She was looking for a way to get the smell out without damaging the diapers.
That is definitely something to remember to ask, whether you're buying used dipes, or from a WAHM. Is this a smoke free home and do you have any pets (if you have pet allergies.) That said, it's something I always forget to ask!!
The two things I thought to try were baking soda or vinegar. Soak the covers in a tub with water and a generous helping of baking soda, then rinse rinse rinse or do the same with vinegar. I've heard about people using "oxyvin," or oxyclean and vinegar, to strip really icky diapers. The oxy clean and vinegar create a chemical reaction (use caution!!) to clean the diapers.
How about you all, have you had to get smoke smell out of diapers? What worked?
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14 March, 2011
Cloth Diaper Advice/Mailbox Mondays 3/14/11
Every Monday, I will answer reader submitted questions, and ask you to add your opinions.
Questions don't have to be cloth diaper related, just email maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject, or Fill out my contact form for readers, which you will always be able to find on my Contact Page.
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Today, I just want to ask for your advice. Are you happy with the info I provide here (the site in general?) Are there features you'd like me to add?
I know everyone likes a good giveaway, but I want the site to be a resource for you, not just a place to get free stuff.
How about the YouTube videos, are you finding them helpful? Are there videos you'd like me to add to the ChangeDiapers YouTube channel?
I do have a list of diapers I'd still like to review, but since I don't really "need" any more diapers, it's hard to justify the budget expenditure!
Are there any diapers you'd like to see me review? You can check my archive of cloth diaper reviews of course, in case I've already done it. Or, are there diapers you've seen reviews of, but you still want more information, close-up photos of specific features, etc.?
Let me know y'all! (Me pretending to be southern, ha.)
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07 March, 2011
Mailbox Mondays 3/7/11 - Selling Used Diapers
Every Monday, I will answer reader submitted questions, and ask you to weigh in your two cents.
Questions don't have to be cloth diaper related, just email maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject, or Fill out my contact form for readers, which you will always be able to find on my Contact Page.
Edie says:
Hi Maria!
I began cloth diapering my daughter when she was 8 months, and started her stash with both pockets and prefolds + covers. Now that I seem to have figured out my laundry routine and resolved stink issues with the microfiber inserts I've found that I definitely prefer my perfect fit Fuzzibunz over the prefolds. So now I have a dozen and a half prefolds, a handful of covers, and a couple Snappis just sitting in a closet gathering dust. Do you have any tips and pointers on selling used diapers and specific sites that you prefer to use? Is there any cd selling etiquette that I need to know? I would love to fill out our supply of pocket diapers, but I need to sell some diapers first!
Thanks,
Edie
Great question! I have only sold a few diapers myself, so I'll give you what information I have, then ask others to weigh in too.
The first place that comes to mind is diaperswappers. There is a Facebook page dedicated to fluff swapping, but of course the name has slipped my mind. (Fluff Swappers! Thanks Tamara!) I have done my selling through a cloth diaper group on Cafemom, and many online cloth diaper groups have FSOT (for sale or trade) sections. Some diaper companies allow sale/trade posts on their Facebook pages, but check with them before posting!
The biggest hurdle to selling cloth diapers is that you're an unknown seller. Buyers/traders rely heavily on Feedback from other buyers to ensure that the seller will follow through, and items will be as expected.
To get the most for your items, and to make sure the buyer knows what they're getting, be thorough and honest in your description. Make sure your diapers are clean, then go over them inch by inch, noting any wear or damage. Take as many photos as you can of the front, back, inside and outside of the diapers, the inserts, closures and close-ups of any damage or stains.
Be reasonable in your pricing, and consider pricing the diapers to include shipping costs. It's a great idea to include delivery confirmation when you ship. You can easily ship first class online at http://www.paypal.com/shipnow and postage is generally under $3.00 per diaper.
Be sure to also package your diapers well. I have received diapers that were mailed in a manila envelope only, and the envelope was torn (luckily the diaper didn't fall out or get torn/damaged.
So how about you guys? Give me your opinions on selling used diapers, and where to do it. Both buyers and sellers perspectives are helpful!
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21 February, 2011
Mailbox Mondays 2/21/11 - Prepping Diapers & Stinky Pails!
Every Monday, I will answer reader submitted questions in my Mailbox Mondays post, and ask you to weigh in your opinions.
Questions don't have to be cloth diaper related, just email maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject, or Fill out my contact form for readers, which you will always be able to find on my Contact Page.
Julie says:
Hi Maria!!
First off I just want to say I LOVE your blog! It was one of the first cloth diaper related blogs I came across when I was pregnant and looking into cloth diapers. I had a couple of questions for you.
First off, I started my cloth diaper stash with a big purchase so it was easy to just throw all of the items in the wash to prep them all together. Nowadays, I find myself buying one or two diapers or inserts at a time and I would hate to run a laundry load for just a couple of items. Do you have any suggestions for prepping just a couple of diapers or inserts at a time?
Also, my daughter was exclusively breastfed for the first 6 months, but now that she is almost 9 months and eating solids, I am finding that her diaper pail is getting MIGHTY stinky. I do try to spray the poopy diapers with my sprayer but that doesn't really seem to be helping. Any other suggestions?
Thanks so so much!
Sincerely,
Julie J.
I really appreciate hearing that you enjoy the blog, and find it helpful! You really have no idea how warm & fuzzy that makes me feel!
If I get a new diaper that doesn't have special prepping instructions (if it's made of microfiber, microfleece, PUL etc.), I throw it in the wash with my other diapers once, then use it. Things like organic cotton and hemp usually need to be washed at least three times before using, and will continue to gain absorbency for up to 10 washes.
The problem is that they need to be washed separately, since the fibers contain natural oils that could be deposited onto your other diapers, and cause them to repel. Check with the manufacturer/the product packaging, because some companies send natural fiber products partially prepped. As annoying as it is, and wasteful as it seems, you really do need to wash them separately to protect your other diapers.
I have heard of people boiling hemp prefolds/inserts to remove the oils faster, but I haven't tried that myself! I would definitely suggest exercising caution if you try that, and I am not responsible for any burns or fires that may occur, eek! "Ma'am, what were you doing when the fire started?" "Errr, well, uhh...I was just...uhh...boiling my...hemp."
As far as your stinky pail goes, my first two suggestions would be to keep the pail open a crack, and to wash more often. You'd think keeping the pail closed tightly would keep the smell in better, but I find that letting the air circulate means less stink. Washing no more than every 2-3 days, and washing the liner each time helps quite a bit as well. Wahmies pail liners have a swatch of fabric at the seam, where you can add a few drops of essential oil to help with the odor. If yours doesn't have that feature, several WAHMs also make pail powder that you can use to eliminate odors and add scent.
How about you? How do you prep new diapers when you only have 1 or 2? How do you combat pail stink?
14 February, 2011
Mailbox Mondays 2/14/11 - Making Your Own Diapers, Materials & Wool
It's Valentines Day, my Dad's Birthday, and it's Mailbox Monday! Every Monday (if I have received a submission), I will answer reader submitted questions, and ask readers to weigh in with their opinions.
Questions don't have to be cloth diaper related, just email maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject, or Fill out my contact form for readers, which you will always be able to find on my Contact Page.
Melissa says:
Hi Maria,
I know you usually purchase your diapers but I was wondering if you have any advice for making your own cloth diaper. I am currently pregnant with my first so I am still a newby with all this. I have found several great templates with step by step directions online and they all recommend using flannel as their main material. I was wondering about using fleece for the layer that touches that baby's skin, since that is what seems to be most popular with the name brand diapers. What is the difference between the fleece that I can purchase from the cloth store and microfleece? Is it really necessary to purchase microfleece?
Also, do you have a source for good wool soakers and longies?
Thank you so much for helping me wade through this world of cloth diapers :)
Melissa
You're right that I don't sew my own diapers! I don't have a sewing machine and while I thought about getting one, I don't realistically think I'd have time to spend on that right now. I think it's awesome that you are a) going to cloth diaper your first baby (why was I such a chicken??) and b) sewing your own!
So, when I had my bright idea that I wanted to try to make my own diapers, I joined the group Sewing Diaper Divas on Cafemom. There is lots of great information there on materials, patterns and techniques, though my membership lapsed since I wasn't active there. There are also a lot of talented WAHMs in the Cuties With Cloth Booties group on Cafemom, that can give you tips!
The benefit of fleece against baby's skin is that it will wick moisture away from the baby's skin into the insert or soaker of the diaper, while flannel will stay wet against the baby's skin.
Microfleece and fleece are both polyester, but microfleece is made of smaller, and more tightly woven fibers. It is a lighter "weight" than something like Walden Mills Fleece (which can be used as the outer of night time diapers.) Generally speaking, water will pass through the microfleece more easily, and it doesn't get as pilly over time.
What materials you use will depend on what you want to make. It's not a bad idea to just start out with some extra, or inexpensive flannel receiving blankets, and get some practice before buying materials.
I have three wool soakers: a Little Beetle Little to Big Cover, a Kissaluvs Kissa's Wool Lover Diaper Cover and a Mobums Wool Interlock Night Night Soaker. Wool longies/shorties/skirties are often stocked in The Cuties with Cloth Booties Congo and The Bliss Congo, both of which are stuffed full of talented WAHMs!
I don't own any wool other than what I listed above, largely because wool is just out of my price range.
I think the readers would be better qualified to answer these questions this week! How about you all? Do you make your own diapers? Do you have a favorite place to buy wool?
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07 February, 2011
Mailbox Mondays 2/7/11 - Cloth Diaper Detergent
Every Monday (if I have received a submission)I will answer reader submitted questions in my Mailbox Mondays post, and ask readers to weigh in with their opinions.
Questions don't have to be cloth diaper related, just email maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject, or Fill out my contact form for readers, which you will always be able to find on my Contact Page.
Naomi says:
hey Maria,
I've got a two questions for ya.
#1: My All Free & Clear detergent has "optical brighteners" in it...how does that effect cloth diapers?
#2: What safe-for-cloth-diaper detergents are available at department and grocery stores? I don't really want to order detergent online (not even really sure why) and we only have one or two 'natural' stores in town and I don't think either has some of detergents I've seen for cloth diapers. (i.e. charlies soap or soap nuts etc.)
I've been using All Free & Clear happily for a year, but want to try something new.
thanks,
Naomi
OK so, I'm reading this. I'm reading, reading, then I get to this: "I've been using All Free & Clear happily for a year, but want to try something new."
Cue ominous music...
In all seriousness, for the love of Pete, if it ain't broke, don't fix it! Switching from a detergent that is working well for you could cause a long process of stink, stripping and endless rinsing. Take it from me, don't do it.
Now that I've gotten that out of my system...optical brighteners are chemicals that bind to the fibers of your laundry. While they don't actually make your laundry any cleaner, they absorb ultraviolet light, and reflect back blue light, making your laundry appear whiter. Interestingly, military approved detergents do not contain optical brighteners. Clothing washed with them could potentially make soldiers visible to night-vision, and therefore vulnerable to attack. If you buy All Free & Clear in a commissary, it will likely say that it does not contain optical brighteners. I'm not in the military, so I'm not an expert, but I believe the uniform care instructions may have been relaxed in some branches to allow optical brighteners.
The concern with optical brighteners and cloth diapers is first, that they could potentially cause repelling since they have to bind to the fabric in order to work. In addition, they could potentially be irritating to skin.
I haven't been able to find any "safe" detergents locally. However, some that have reportedly been found in grocery stores are: Allen's Naturally, Country Save and Charlie's Soap. Standard A.K.A. "no-no" detergents that work well for a lot of people include Arm & Hammer Essentials, Arm & Hammer with OxyClean and Tide Original Powder.
While I haven't personally used these, a few "green" detergents have been used with mixed success, and may be available locally. They include Ecover, Planet and Seventh Generation. Generally, "green" or biodegradable detergents will not contain optical brighteners, but check with the company to be sure.
I really think that if a detergent is working of you, keep using it, "rules" be darned. However, with something like brighteners, it can take long-term use for buildup to cause issues. I would think after a year of use, you're in the clear, but who knows, right?
Now that I've told you way more than you wanted to hear...
How about the rest of you? Do you use a standard detergent or one that is known to contain optical brighteners? Did you have any problems? How long did you use the detergent before you started having problems?
31 January, 2011
Mailbox Mondays 1/31/11 - Washing Questions - Not Just Diapers!
Every Monday, if I've received a submission, I will answer reader submitted questions. Questions don't have to be cloth diaper related, just email maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject!
Maria says (and no, I'm not talking to myself again!):
Hi, Maria! I'm a Maria, too! And I have a couple questions for you about detergent.
First, I'd love to know if you can recommend a good diaper detergent that is NOT clean-rinsing. I live in an apartment and have to wash my diapers at the shared laundry facility, so using many popular cloth diaper detergents like Rockin' Green or Charlie's is not an option for me!
Second, this one's always puzzled me. If using less than the recommended amount of detergent can get nasty poopy diapers clean, then why don't we do the same for all the rest of our laundry? (BONUS QUESTION!-- exactly how much detergent AM I supposed to use for diapers, anyway? I've heard different opinions on that)
Thanks for your time answering questions! We Marias gotta stick together, don't you know! ;-)
Sincerely,
Maria D.
These are great questions! I will apologize in advance that this will get long!
For those who may be wondering, when you use shared laundry facilities, typical "cloth diaper safe" detergents can pose a problem, because they tend to lift the detergent residue from the machine.
My first rule for diaper washing is "if it ain't broke, don't fix it," so if your diapers are clean, stink-free and not repelling, leave your routine alone! That said, it's a good idea to use the same detergent on your clothing and your diapers both, so you can avoid one detergent working against the other.
Some people have great luck with cloth diaper detergents, other people, not so much. Others just don't have them locally available to them and/or prefer to use a less expensive, and more readily available detergent. I think we're all aware of the charts that list the no-no detergents and ingredients, but many people successfully use standard detergents, and I'm one of them.
I use Tide Original HE powder, using about 1/4 the lowest load line for a full load of diapers. Many other cloth diaper users report successfully using Tide Original powder. Powder detergents tend to rinse out more easily, and don't gunk up your machine as much as liquid detergents do.
Another standard detergent brand that's been widely used with success is Arm & Hammer with Oxyclean and Arm & Hammer Essentials. I've tried it, but don't care for the liquid variety, and the smell was a little much for me. I've also heard of several people using Country Save.
For more eco-friendly options, I've heard mixed reviews of Planet, Seventh Generation, Ecos and Ecover detergents. I haven't used any of them myself.
Though Tide is a no-no with the detergent police (and it's not exactly the most "green" option), it seems to be the most common "standard" detergent that cloth diaper washers use with success. I've said before that I'm not a huge fan of the charts, I really think you need to do a little trial and error to find what works for you!
As far as your second question, I do have a water softener and an HE machine (I use HE powder of course) so I use less detergent than others, but I never use more than half of the lowest load line for my largest, most soiled loads of laundry. While most people wouldn't be able to get anything clean with a tablespoon of detergent, I doubt even the hardest water and dirtiest clothing would need a full scoop/capful of detergent.
If you normally use the largest load line for your other laundry, try running them through a rinse cycle with no detergent and check for bubbles. I'm guessing a lot of people would be able to wash their laundry a few times without adding any, thanks to all the detergent residue! Really, why wouldn't companies recommend using a huge scoop of detergent for regular laundry? It lines their pockets!
I think it's a great idea to at least try using less detergent, and see if your clothes still get clean. I bet they will. If they do, you've just cut your detergent expense in half, and if they don't, well, at least you tried!
As for your bonus question, the amount of detergent you use is also a trial and error experiment, depending on how hard your water is, what type of washer you're using, and what detergent you choose.
If you are using a detergent marketed for cloth diapers, use the recommended amount (a little less for soft water.) If you're using a standard detergent, I'd start with 1/4-1/2 the recommended amount for a typical diaper load (around 15 diapers.) You want to get them rinsed pretty clean, and I find that if I use too much detergent, I definitely need to do extra rinses. If you're paying to wash your laundry, you certainly want to minimize rinses, so check your rinse cycle for bubbles, and cut back on the detergent if you're seeing a lot.
The great experiment really gets complicated when you have stink issues. You have to figure out of the smell is from detergent residue (usually when they smell clean coming out of the wash, but stink when wet) or not enough detergent (usually when they still smell dirty right out of the wash.)
Bleach is another thing some people don't like, but I find that if I start smelling some ammonia (mostly in the thicker inserts I use at night) a little bleach in with the inserts only knocks it right out!
Is anyone else breaking the detergent "rules" and using a standard detergent successfully? If so, what do you use?
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24 January, 2011
Mailbox Mondays 1/24/11 - Discolored inserts
Every Monday, if I've received a submission, I will answer reader submitted questions. Questions don't have to be cloth diaper related, just email maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject!
Rachell says:
Hi Maria
I have a question about inserts.
Some of my Microfiber inserts have discolored to a light brown with darker brown streaks. Is this ok? And what can cause this?
Rachell
Hi Rachell. The first thing that comes to mind is discoloration from mineral deposits in your water. Do you have hard water? Do you notice buildup/stains in your sinks, bathtubs/showers or toilets?
Is your other white laundry (non-diaper laundry) discolored too? Are you having stink issues? Was the discoloration gradual or sudden? What is your wash routine?
I know that's a lot of questions! If you have hard water, you will most likely be having buildup issues in your sinks etc. and be having stink issues with your diapers. If that's the case, you may need a detergent designed for washing cloth diapers hard water, like Rockin' Green's hard rock.
If you're not having any of the other typical hard water issues, you may need to switch up your wash/rinse routine a little bit. I do get a little bit of streaking staining when a messier BM seeps into the insert. The best treatment for stains seems to be some good, old fashioned sun!
Another thing to try (if you don't have an issue with bleach) is to wash the inserts only with about 1/4 cup of bleach. Then, continue to rinse the inserts until there are no suds and no residue in the water, and you no longer smell the bleach.
I do think the cause of the discoloration is most likely to be deposits from your water, but if you aren't having any issues with stink or repelling, it's really just a cosmetic issue!
How about the rest of you, have you had this type of discoloration? Did you discover what was causing it?
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17 January, 2011
Mailbox Mondays 1/17/11 - Wet Bag/Pail Liners and Washing Natural Fibers
Every Monday (if I receive submissions, that is!) I will answer reader submitted questions in my Mailbox Mondays post. Questions don't have to be cloth diaper related, just email maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject!
Tamara says:
I have a question! I meant to get it in in time for submission today, but alas, life got in the way. So.....Which side of the pail liner do you put toward the diapers? I have a planet wise pail liner, one side is the shiny PUL and the other side is the fabric. I've always put it in the pail so that the diapers are touching the shiny side. But, I had a friend of mine ask if that was right and it made me wonder..... I investigated and noticed that the tag is on the fabric side and I know that sometimes manufacturers recommend putting a drop of essential oil on the tag so then I was confused. Does that make sense? What do you do? Does it matter? Have I been doing it wrong this whole time?
Diapers do go on the shiny PUL side, so you are doing it correctly!
Whamies Pail Liners have a patch of fabric at the seam for essential oils, but as far as I know, Planet Wise's tags are just for brand identification and laundering instructions. If you're having trouble with smell, you might try keeping the pail open a crack. It seems counterintuitive, but I find that air circulating actually helps with the smell. Washing every 2-3 days at most helps of course too!
Hope this helps!
Stephanie says:
Hi Maria!
I was wondering if there was any rule of thumb about washing microfiber inserts with natural fibers. If so, do you have any recommendations?
Thanks! :)
--
Stephanie
When you get a new diaper or insert that is made from natural fibers, wash it separately to prep per the manufacturer's instructions. For example: a hemp product may say to wash and dry it 2-3 times before use. This will remove the natural oils and get it ready to use. It will continue to gain absorbency up to 10 washes.
Once you have prepped it, there's no issue washing them with your microfiber products!
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10 January, 2011
Mailbox Mondays 1/10/11 - I'm asking you some questions!
Another week with no Mailbox Mondays submissions! Remember that submitted questions don't have to be cloth diaper related. Email maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject.
Since this makes two weeks with no submissions, I'll put the MM posts on hold. If I get a submission, I will publish it, otherwise I will post something else/skip etc.
Today I think I'll ask you some questions instead.
1. People choose to cloth diaper for many reasons. Financial, environmental or health concerns, or even because they are just so gosh darn cute! What was your main motivator for using cloth?
2. What was your very first cloth diaper? Do you still have it?
3. What is your favorite brand/type of diaper? Has your favorite changed over time?
4. Have you overcome any obstacles with cloth (eg. detergent/stink issues, yest, rash, leaks, night time solutions etc.)
5. Is there a brand of diaper you're interested in, that you'd like to see me review? Is there a diaper you're just dying to win? One you don't see given away much, or just one you keep entering to win but don't win?
Anything else you have to say for yourself? :-)
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03 January, 2011
Mailbox Mondays 1/3/11 {{Tumbleweeds}}
It's the first Monday of 2011, and there were no submissions! How terrible is it that I initially typed 2001? Talk about living in the past, huh?
If you have a question you'd like answered in a Mailbox Mondays post (it doesn't have to be cloth diaper related) email maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject.
Hopefully next week there will be something other than tumbleweeds in the Mailbox Mondays post!
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20 December, 2010
Mailbox Mondays 12/20/10 The "other" reusable stuff!
It's time again for Mailbox Mondays! If you have a question (cloth diaper related or not) email maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject line!
Hannah says:
Hi Maria,
I have used cloth diapers for my son since birth, and I have made the switch to reusable menstrual products for myself (DivaCup and homemade pantiliners). I clean around the house with old holey socks, washing them a time or two and then tossing them. I rarely set the dinner table with napkins, but I am working on getting a set of cloth dinner napkins. I use a mixture of cloth handkerchiefs and disposable tissues, depending on what I have handy. I wish I could stop buying paper towels, but I usually use them for greasy jobs like cleaning or oiling my cast iron pans, or greasing baking pans. I am afraid to put very greasy items in my washer for fear they would ruin the whole load of wash, or that I would accidentally throw an item with residual grease in the dryer and it would combust. I also have not switched to "family cloth" (cloth TP) in the bathroom, because I think my husband would flip, even if I didn't make him use it.
My question to you (and other blog readers) is: what reusable products do you use and why; which ones would you like to use, and what is holding you back?
Hannah
Hi Hannah! Shamefully, I don't use as many reusable products as I should.
What do I use? Cloth diapers and wipes of course, along with dish cloths and microfiber towels in lieu of paper towels for cleaning and dishes. We also use cloth napkins, reusable mop pads, reusable bags, containers and napkins in my daughter's lunch box. Even my daughter's baby alive has gone green.
So, what haven't I tried that I want to? I've been wanting Made in the Red Barn unpapertowels and a paper towel house for a very long time. It takes us months to go through a roll of paper towels since we only use them for really icky stuff. Unfortunately, if we have "guests" we can go through a roll in the course of a day. It just kills me to see someone dry their hands on a paper towel and throw it away! Especially since I have clean towels right there, that I replace with a clean one several times per day!
I also very much want to try mama cloth. There are some amazingly talented WAHMs that sell great Mama cloth on Hyenacart, and of course, I want one of each!
Also on my wish list are Better for Grownups organic tissues. They also sell family cloth! I don't think we go through much toilet paper, since we use only 2-3 squares at a time. Oddly enough, writing this made me remember a dream I had about seeing half a roll in the potty and freaking out. Man, are my dreams ever exciting. Anyway, when we have guests over, like paper towels, a roll of TP can disappear in a few hours. I would definitely not want to wash family cloth that people outside my immediate family had used, but I'd be willing to start with using them for "#1." I'd probably only use them myself though, since my daughter would probably accidentally throw them in the toilet, which would not be good for our septic system, if it managed to get down the toilet at all!
We produce very little trash. Since we started using our Nature Mill Composter we typically have less than one 5.2 gallon bag of garbage per week. Even so, I'd love to use even more reusable products. So, what's stopping me? Money.
For most people who pay full price/nearly full price for things like tissues, paper towels and feminine products, their reusable counterparts will "pay for themselves" in no time. For me, I only "buy" these products when they are free, nearly free, or (in the case of my CVS shopping) "better than free." So it is really prohibitively hard on my budget to try to buy reusable products. Especially since it's not a matter of a $2 investment if you don't like the product.
How about you gals? What reusable products do you use now? What would you like to try? What's stopping you?
06 December, 2010
Mailbox Mondays 12/6/10 Fitted diapers
It's Monday again (How does that keep happening? Where does the weekend go?) so it's Mailbox Mondays time! If you'd like your question to be answered in a Mailbox Mondays post, send an email to maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in your subject.
Courtney says:
Hi Maria,
What are your favorite fitted diapers? We only have 2 (a Thirsties Fab Fitted and a Muttaqin Baby) so far. If my Thirsties is clean, it is the first diaper I grab for! I love fitteds and covers! I am looking at buying more to replace some pockets I recently sold. I would love to have your opinion because I also have a very small 1 year old who is only 18 lbs!
Thanks!
Courtney
Hi Courtney! I'll be honest, fitteds aren't my favorite. Mostly because I'm lazy and I might die if I have to snap 4 extra snaps (kidding). That being said, fitteds are awesome for their absorbency. Plus, the elastic of the fitted combined with the elastic of the cover is fantastic for containing messy uhhh...messes.
A super absorbent fitted with a wool cover is a lifesaver for a heavy wetter at night. It's finally what got me through the nights sane, and with my son dry! I love my Guerilla Fluff Utilitarian. It has two soakers with 3 layers of bamboo fleece each, with optional zorb added as well, plus a doubler with 2 layers of bamboo fleece and a layer of wool! It doesn't have snap closures, so I just use it at night.
My Heartland Dreams Fitted is also amazing. It's incredibly well made, super absorbent, and not really as gigantic as you'd think a diaper that absorbent would be. Plus, it came with hip snap covers!
My Ellabella Bottoms Fitted is work-at-home-mom made, just like the other two. The Ellabella Bottoms review actually has a photo of all three of these diapers stacked on top to compare thickness. This one is also very, very absorbent, though a little bulky for daytime.
Lastly, the Little Beetle Little to Big Fitted and Wool Cover are quite different than the others, but also great. It is hands down, the trimmest diaper I have. Yet, very absorbent! I wouldn't use it at night, but it's excellent during the day, and very cute! The elastic is drawn a bit tighter, and I think it would fit most small babies well. My son was 20 pounds at his 18 month checkup, but he's also proportionately short, so he's not super skinny like my long & lean daughter was!
I've only used maybe 10 fitted diapers, as opposed to nearly 50 Pockets/AIO/AI2 diapers! I definitely need to review more fitteds, but like anyone, I tend to spend my fluff funds on my favorites. ;-) Thirsties Fab Fitteds are definitely on my "to-try" list for newborns, if I ever get to diaper one!
How about you gals? Do you have a favorite fitted? Are they WAHM made?
29 November, 2010
Mailbox Mondays 11/29/10 Nighttime cloth undies for big kids / Special needs Diapers
It's Monday, so today I will answer user submitted questions! If you have a question, email maria at change-diapers.com and put "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject. Questions don't have to be about cloth, as long as you're nice. (e.g. don't ask me why I'm so dumb or why my nose is so big!)
Carrie says:
Hi Maria!
I have a question for you about older kids. I have an almost-4-year-old who is potty-trained, but still has occasional accidents at night. We limit the drinks before bedtime and make sure he goes to the bathroom one more time before getting in bed, but still there are accidents. I know all the disposable diaper companies make nighttime "underwear" for big kids, but I was wondering if you could recommend any cloth versions. I didn't start cloth diapering until my third who is 12-months-old now so I don't really know what to do about big kids.
Thanks!
Carrie
Good question Carrie! Though I'm not there yet myself, I've been keeping a look out for these. It doesn't sound like you really need the absorbency (or want the look) of a diaper. For those who do, Fuzzibunz mediums are huge, so I don't doubt for a second that their larges will fit a 45 pound child, as they estimate! They also sell an extra-large, to fit children over 45 pounds. They seem to be harder to find though. I believe they may actually be made to order.
Mother-Ease has some specialty products that include training pants for kids up to 60 pounds (the largest size holds only 6 ounces, so not diaper absorbency. Their bedwetter pants fit up to 65 pounds, and hold 21 ounces!
Bumbledoo sells cloth training pants that look more like undies, can be ordered in custom sizes, and are quite absorbent.
Super Undies makes night time undies look like underwear, are quite absorbent, and can be used with step-up inserts for extra absorbency. These look best to me for a big kid!
Happy Heinys sells Pocket Trainers that come in larger sizes (up to XL/55+ lbs) and of course, are stuffable to customize absorbency. Snap-EZ has a pocket trainer too, but they are going out of business!
I haven't personally tried any of these, since my son isn't quite there yet, but they are what I've found and been interested in thus far.
Hannah says:
Hi Maria,
I'm using cloth diapers for my special needs little brother. Due to some medical issues, he is really susceptible to diaper rashes and when he does get a rash it means his entire diaper area is fiery red, raw and bleeding. I'm also thinking that some pull-ups we used during a recent hospital stay may have helped to cause the rash.
I'm wondering if you have any suggestions for diaper rash creams that would be strong enough to actually do something to help heal his bottom and keep the rash away.
My second question, in your cloth diaper search, have you come across diapers for Special Needs kiddos other than the two big diaper companies, FuzziBunz and Happy Heinys? I'm always interested in finding more companies that support cloth diapering for Special Needs children.
Thanks!
Hannah
Well, I actually got this submission after I had typed the answer to the first one, and had it ready to publish. Since I found myself wandering from night time potty training to special needs kids, I thought I may as well combine them!
Hannah, I am thinking the mother-ease "bedwetter" pants or even the super undies with some additional inserts would be nice. I will definitely be keeping my eye out for others!
You can use any diaper rash cream as long as you use a fleece liner to protect the cloth diaper. I had great luck with Boudreaux Butt Paste when my daughter was little, and I have heard many, many Moms say that Triple Paste is excellent for the really bad rashes. Luckily, my son has a little redness from a dirty diaper at the worst, and a little Grandma El's or EMAB bottom balm clears it right up. His rashes from disposables never actually bled, but they sure were close. I'm not sure Grandma El's or EMAB would work for a bad rash, but once you get it cleared up, a thin, preventative layer at each change would likely work wonders.
Sorry I wasn't more help, I will definitely be on the lookout for any larger, absorbent diapers!
How about you, readers? Have you found a night-time trainer that you love? Anyone found great special needs diapers? Have you ever battled bath rash with cloth? What worked for you?
22 November, 2010
Mailbox Mondays 11/22/10 Search terms that make me scratch my head
Oh no, another week with no mailbox Mondays submissions! If you have a questions for me, cloth diaper related or not (just be nice!) send an email to maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject.
So this week, I thought I'd share some of the most head scratching search terms that led people to my site in the past month.
1. "i had to get a spell made diaper"
Uh, what? What kind of spell? Does this spell make the diaper change/wash itself? If so, where can I get one?
2. "how did a diaper get in my daughter's room"
I have no idea, but now I want to know too!
3. "i like diapers"
Yeah me too! I love cloth diapers anyway!
4. "i love boys in fitteds"
I don't understand this at all. When I think "fitteds" I think fitted diapers of course. I guess it could be fitted hats?
5. "my mom change my diapers"
Ermmm...if you're old enough to be googling, I would hope not.
6. "weird pocket diaper"
I can't let this one go. What was it? What made it weird? I have to know! LOL
By the way, I copied this right from my analytics, I captialize "I" even when I'm searching, ha ha.
Have you ever searched for anything that would seem weird out of context?
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15 November, 2010
Mailbox Mondays 11/15/10
Every Monday, I will answer user submitted questions in a "Mailbox Mondays" post. They don't have to be about cloth, anything you'd like to ask me is fine! I love to answer cloth questions when asked, but if you'd like your question to be answered in a MM post, send it to Maria at change-diapers.com with "Mailbox Mondays" in the subject.
Sara Says:
Maria,
I'm using cloth wipes full time now, and am wondering if you have any suggestions on where to put them for ease of use and if you use a solution? Right now my wipes are by the bathroom sink where I can get one wet when I need to change someone. It doesn't work to have them on the changing table (top of the dresser with pad) due to lack of space, boys kicking them off the dresser, etc. I'm always trying to think of different places to do/put things to make it easier. Thanks so much!~Sara
I think that cloth wipes are a must have when you cloth diaper! When I first switched, I was using up some disposable wipes I had, and what a pain to remember to pick them out and throw them away.
I change most of my son's diapers downstairs in the family room, so I just keep diapers, wipes and solution on a ledge by the couch.
The wipes are just in a stack, nothing fancy, but you can also fold them to pop up in a wipes container. I made a quick video if you aren't familiar with how to do it:
Upstairs, I have just a few diapers and a handful of wipes (plus solution) in a drawer. It's rather messy, I just have them stuffed in where I keep nail clippers, comb etc.
If you don't have drawer space, and you don't have space on your dresser/changing table, I love the idea of a small shelf mounted on the wall, right above the dresser/changing table. You can get inexpensive ones that are very basic but do the job, or you can get stylish, decorative ones that match your decor. A small shelf just big enough for a few diapers, wipes and solution can be used later to store knick knacks, keepsakes, stuffed animals or decorations.
Speaking of solutions, I really liked the Thirsties booty luster I reviewed, but I'm
I spray directly on my son, then wipe, so I use very little. Now that it's gotten cold again, I've been spraying the wipes, which takes more solution to get the job done. The cold spray didn't bother him last year, but it seems to this year! If you make the solution and pour it over your wipes, you will of course need more.
I have seen some amazing setups where people have this beautiful, neatly organized shelf with all of their diapers, covers, prefolds and so forth arranged just so. For me, the best setup/storage is out of reach of my kids!
How about you? How do you store your stuff?
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08 November, 2010
Mailbox Mondays 11/8/10
Every Monday I will answer user submitted questions. They don't have to be about cloth diapering! I'll always answer questions via email, but if you would like your question to be answered in a Mailbox Mondays post, send an email with the subject "Mailbox Mondays" to Maria at change-diapers dot com.
Naomi says:
Hey Maria,
Talk to me(us) about hemp vs. bamboo. Any recommendations of brands for a hemp or bamboo insert?
Overnight diapers for my 3 year old are getting pretty bulky. I usually sandwich a terry hemp doubler between two microfiber inserts in a generic pocket. That usually does the trick, but I've only got two of the hemp guys and when I'm out, I stuff the poor pockets to the gills with microfiber (3 inserts or 2 inserts with a mf towel). While dd doesn't seem to care about the bulk, it gets hard to stuff and when family sees her overnight diaper it is pretty comical.
I don't mind bulk, but am wondering which material to try and get inserts of. I've heard a lot about wool covers, but right now can only afford to stay with my pockets for overnight and just get a couple used inserts.
Great question! I've been fortunate in that several of the diapers I've purchased/reviewed came with natural fiber inserts, and they are definitely top notch for nighttime diapering.
In no particular order, first is the insert that came with my Babykicks Bumboo Pocket Diaper. This is 55% hemp and 45% cotton. Babykicks also sells Joey Bunz, Joey Bunz Premium (both sized) and doublers separately. (There should be some in the CSN giveaway in the Merry Fluffy Christmas event!)
My Amp Duo Diaper came with a 2-layer hemp insert, as well as a bamboo insert. The inserts look like a smallish prefold that you trifold, and they also come in 3-layer hemp, as well as organic cotton.
My Blueberry Minky was one I bought after only cloth diapering for about a month, and it was my first experience with a microfiber/hemp combo. It's a one size insert that snaps down to different sizes, and a 3-pack retails separately for $19.95.
These doublers were kind of random. They were loose in the package with the Blueberry diapers I bought last year. I believe they are organic cotton and bamboo doublers but I'm not entirely sure. I use both of them at night. I have 4 night time diapers in my rotation right now. My Guerilla Fluff Utilitarian with a Mobums Wool Interlock Night Night Soaker, a Dypes by Dixon Sweet Slumber fleece pocket stuffed with the superdo, and two Bumgenius 3.0 pockets, one stuffed with a microfiber insert and one of the random hemp/cotton doublers, the other stuffed with the loopydo with the second random doubler in between.
Speaking of which, I wholeheartedly recommend the Knickernappies Superdo and Loopydo inserts. I purchased these out of utter desperation when my son was soaking every insert I had, and I was creating a monster leg gap by putting 3 inserts in a pocket. They really are rather pricey at $7.50 for a loopydo and $12.95 for a superdo, but I think they are worth it. I tried to be cheap and buy the large size for my son's medium diapers, but they are quite bulky folded over. I love the microfiber/hemp combo because the microfiber whisks the moisture away from my son's skin, and the hemp locks it away.
OK, I feel like a paper towel commercial. Really though, if you are looking for a solution for a heavy wetter, I highly recommend them. The only problem I have with them is that they can become quite stinky. When I notice that, I wash (inserts only) with about 1/4 cup of bleach, then rinse rinse rinse until the water is clean and the inserts don't smell like bleach anymore!
If I had the money to spend, I'd love to have more superdo/loopydo inserts. I've been wanting to buy some mediums for a while but I've been trying to stick to the budget!
These are just the inserts I own, there are of course lots of other natural fiber inserts/prefolds out there!
So how about the rest of you? Do you have a favorite natural fiber insert?
01 November, 2010
Mailbox Mondays 11/1/10
Every Monday I will answer user submitted questions. They don't have to be about cloth diapering! I'll always answer questions via email, but if you would like your question to be answered in a Mailbox Mondays post, send an email with the subject "Mailbox Mondays" to Maria at change-diapers dot com.
Courtney says:
Hello Maria!
I have a diaper cleaning question. Our diaper sprayer recently broke. Until we can build a new one, I need to find a new way to clean poopy diapers. What is your method? Do you have any pointers? My son is 11 months old, so there is no way we can throw them in the wash without rinsing first!
Thanks!
Courtney
I never got around to buying a diaper sprayer, so I'm all too familiar with this conundrum. When my son first started solids, I was able to get away with just throwing them right into the wash. If they needed a little extra help (still mostly breastmilk poop) I was rinsing them with my laundry room/utility sink sprayer. Then for a few months there, I was able to flip the poop right into the potty. Boy was that nice!
Now here's where this question gets a little gross. I apologize in advance, there's just no way to avoid a little grossness with this subject! He went through the stage of the "peanut butter" consistency poop, and now that he's eating tons of fruit and drinking some juice, diapers are much more messy and I can't just flip solids off the diaper.
What I do is use 3 or 4 sheets of toilet paper folded up to scrape off as much as I can, then whatever is left goes into the washing machine. I've heard of several other similar methods, where people may use a clean popsicle stick or plastic card (great use for the old Blockbuster card if you still have one!) to scrape the diaper. Just keep it in a plastic bag out of sight, perhaps behind the toilet, or under your tissue box if you keep one on top of the tank like I do.
Some people still do the ol' dunk and swish in the toilet, I've even heard of people flushing with the diaper in the toilet (hold on to it tightly!) to take advantage of the self-swish.
I've heard more than a few say they just rinse the diapers in the sink or the bathtub (a hand held shower head would be especially handy) and then wiping out the tub/sink with bleach etc. This would be a pain if you have a frequent pooper, but might be handy if you have a child who poops like clockwork once per day.
How about the rest of you? Do you use a diaper sprayer? If not, how you handle the poop?
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25 October, 2010
Mailbox Mondays 10/25/10
{{tumbleweeds and spooky abandoned ghost town noises}}
Well, since I didn't get a single Mailbox Mondays submission for this week, I'm going to ask you a question instead.
{{crickets chirping}}
OK, here goes. Has anyone noticed a color difference between the tabs on their bumgenius 4.0 compared to the body of the diaper?
I didn't notice this with my 3.0s, or my "sweet" or "grasshopper" 4.0. So, I was wondering if this is just how they are, if I got one with two different dye lots, or if maybe I received a "second" since this was a replacement of a 3.0 under warranty.
Anyone? I know it doesn't matter but it bugs me darn it!!
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